Unattended children will be ____________.
Once again Ben and I were in a restaurant, and a pack of feral children were running wild. The parents—as usual—were completely oblivious. I can now easily understand how children go missing. With such insouciant parents, children in public places are low hanging fruit for predators.
If I had behaved the way I’ve seen children behaving in restaurants (and a multitude of other public places) I would’ve been immediately removed to the car and probably wouldn’t be able to sit for a week after arriving home. My (and Ben’s) parents (as did most families once upon a time) had a zero-tolerance policy in regards to behaving in public, and it was a good thing. But somewhere along the line parents gave up being authority figures and became more concerned with being friends with their offspring.
Becoming friends with your parents is something that may or may not happen after you’re an adult; prior to that it shouldn’t even be part of the parenting equation.
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