Morning Soundtrack

Ray Lynch – Deep Breakfast (1986)

Sometime in 1987 or thereabouts, on one our many little tribe’s outings via ferry from SF to Sausalito (being newly-relocated desert rats we enjoyed any time on the water we could), I first heard this album. It was playing in one of the many New Age souvenir/crystal shops that dotted the main drag at the time and I was immediately enchanted. Fortunately I didn’t have to go far to get a copy, as they had an extensive in-store CD selection for sale.

Playing this always envokes the emotion of that afternoon if even the now sadly degraded memories of what actually expired outside that shop are fleeting.

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What The Fuck Are We Doing?

Every single day another line disappears. Something that should stop the country in its tracks becomes another headline, another debate, another argument, another excuse. We barely have time to process one outrage before another one arrives. The news moves on.

Social media moves on. The people responsible move on. Somehow we’re expected to move on too.

Every morning starts to feel the same. You open your phone wondering what it will be today.

What rule will no longer matter?

What institution will be tested again? What norm will quietly disappear? What will happen that would have dominated every front page in America ten years ago but now barely survives a news cycle before the next impossible thing replaces it?

It isn’t one moment. It never is. It’s watching the impossible become ordinary. It’s watching behavior that once would have ended careers become another argument on television. It’s watching accountability become optional, corruption become background noise, and abuses of power become something people debate instead of reject. Somewhere along the way, the unthinkable stopped feeling unthinkable, and that’s the part that should terrify every one of us.

Every day feels like it should have been enough. Instead, another justification appears, another distraction takes over, and somehow the bar gets raised again.

What should have been the breaking point simply becomes the starting point for whatever comes next.

It leaves you looking around wondering whether everyone else is seeing the same country you are.

Not because this is complicated.

Because it isn’t. There is nothing complicated about corruption.

There is nothing complicated about cruelty. There is nothing complicated about abusing power and expecting everyone else to pretend it’s normal. The most bewildering part isn’t what is happening. It’s watching people argue over whether it deserves to matter at all.

People are suffering while the people with the power to change it argue about talking points. Children are falling asleep to the sound of bombs. Parents are wondering whether they can keep the people they love alive. People with disabilities are watching decades of hard-won protections being dismantled piece by piece. Older adults are wondering whether dignity has become too expensive to protect. Families are carrying burdens that grow heavier while those with the power to change course keep finding new excuses not to. Communities are paying the price while power protects itself.

There is something deeply unsettling about watching a society lose its ability to be shocked. Not because shocking things stopped happening, but because they started happening so often that they became part of the routine.

Institutions bend. Accountability shrinks. Excuses multiply.

Eventually we aren’t asking whether a line was crossed. We’re arguing over whether the line ever existed.

That may be the cruelest part of all.

Normalization doesn’t ask

permission. It doesn’t arrive with a warning. It quietly reshapes our expectations until outrage becomes exhaustion, exhaustion becomes routine, and routine becomes acceptance.

So I’ll ask it again.

What the fuck are we doing?

Too many people have hidden behind the word ‘politics.’ It has become the excuse used to avoid making moral judgments. Calling out cruelty, corruption, dishonesty, abuses of power, or the erosion of democratic norms isn’t just another political opinion. It never was.

This has never just been about politics. It has always been about morality. About what kind of people we choose to be when power rewards cruelty instead of compassion, loyalty instead of integrity, and blind allegiance instead of truth. Every generation likes to imagine it would have recognized the moments history now condemns. The truth is that history isn’t written by people who recognized those moments afterward. It is written by the people who refused to normalize them while they were happening.

Every time people in positions of power excuse something because it’s politically convenient, the line moves. Every time institutions decide that character matters a little less than power, the line moves.

Every time leaders explain away corruption because it benefits them, the line moves. Every time cruelty becomes entertainment instead of a moral breaking point, the line moves. We keep telling ourselves someone, somewhere, will finally draw the line, while watching the line disappear in real time.

So no, I’m done pretending this is complicated. Some things are simply wrong.

The world only becomes this way when people allow it to. Not all at once, but one excuse at a time. One compromise at a time. One rationalization at a time. One institution deciding accountability can wait. One leader deciding loyalty matters more than integrity.

One person with the power to draw the line deciding not to. Then something worse happens, built on every excuse that came before it.

The people excusing corruption don’t get to redefine what corruption is. The people defending cruelty don’t get to redefine what cruelty is. The people justifying dishonesty don’t get to redefine honesty. And abuse of power doesn’t become leadership simply because someone found a way to explain it away.

The moment a society starts rewriting its morality to fit its loyalties, it has already started losing something far more important than politics.

So I’ll ask it one last time.

What the fuck are we doing?

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This Was Called A “Cottage”

Convert the Dressing Room to a walk-in closet. Close off the existing closet in that bedroom and turn it into a half bath accessible from the hallway. Alternately, move the Bathroom to the Dressing Room space, turn the existing Bathroom into a walk-in closet. Seal off the existing Bedroom closet into a half bath with a door to the hall. Any number of options on the First Floor.

Upstairs Maid’s Room could be a great home office or Guest Bedroom. Likewise, the existing “Work Room” would make an excellent entertainment room—or in the vernacular—a “Man Cave.”

Overall, this is one of the favorites I’ve seen recently.

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My Favorite Day Of The Week

I’ve been seeing a lymphedema therapist since late last year to address the ongoing swelling since my surgery last Septembefr. What is the therapy? It can be best described as a deep head and neck massage. I know that sounds kind of flippant, but the therapy does work, and it’s an hour once a week when I can just disconnect from the world.

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Another Tiny Russian House

At 77 m2 (829 sq. ft.) it is indeed tiny, but not overly so. I’ve lived in what felt like very spacious one bedroom apartments that topped out at about 700 square feet and a lot of that felt wasted.

The one thing I would do is get rid of the wall separating the front entrance hall from the living room as well as the walls and doors separating that expanded space from the rest of the house. That central hallway is still wasted space, but at least you’d get the illusion of the space being much larger and open.

And as to why Russian homes have such thick walls, it’s as I suspected…

That probably also explains why the public part of the house is divided from the private area. It can be closed off to save on heating!

 

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