Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































I have been an avid film-goer my entire life, (I must have 1/2 of the entire Criterion Collection). Looking back on the 1980’s, I viewed hundreds of films but there are many ‘popular’ films that I have to this day, still never seen. ‘Ferris Bueller’s Day Off’ and ‘The Breakfast Club’ never interested me (for whatever reasons) then and now. I realize I’m possibly the only one on The Planet that hasn’t seen them, but, there you are. Having said that, The 1980’s was the absolute busiest time of my life with my job (which is known to Mark), and traveling the World. As well as Cruising The Castro, The Mission District, The Safeway on Market St; Dolores Park, The Avenues, The Tenderloin and Folsom St. South of Market. (I suppose I put John Hughes Films on hold and the hold-button got stuck?)