Asking Myself That For Years
Oh, He's Pretty!
This Was My Archetype Growing Up
And this look still elicits a deep, manly, "woof!"
Not Gonna Lie…
When…
365 Days of UNF: Day 205
Construction Tools
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The Beard Looks Good, But…
Day-um Daddy!
Damn…
365 Days of UNF: Day 184
Some Snaps of San Francisco Pride Sunday from Years Past
1986
This was my first parade. We (my tribe) weren't even living in SF yet, but like so many others, we flew up specifically to attend.
1987
This was our first parade as full-fledged San Francisco residents.
1988
This was the year the parade reversed direction because of light rail construction downtown, forcing the parade to start in the Castro and end at the Civic Center instead of starting at the base of Market Street. My dadāalong with James, a longtime friendāflew up from Tucson to attend.
1989
Continuing the previous year's route because track work wasĀ still going on downtown, the parade once again started in the Castro. This year my dad (who had relocated to the bay area during the previous year)Ā andĀ my mom were there.
1990
The energy of the parade this yearāreturning to it's original route moving up Market Street to the Civic Centerāwas off. I don't know if it was just me (I'd been going through some romantic troubles) or if it was the fact it wasāfor a second year in a rowācompletely overcast, but my heart just wasn't into it. In fact, I think I lingered only for about 90 minutes before returning home.
1991
Back in a party mood after whatever had gotten me so down the year before, I headed downtown with every intention of getting as many photos of hot guys as I could. Overall I think I did a pretty good job.
1992
This would be my last parade, despite the fact I think that overall it was myĀ best, photographically speaking. Ironically, my attitude the following year and every one thereafter was "I mean really, how many photos of hot guys at the parade can one take?" so I never attended one again. Plus, the beginning of my attitude that "there are so many more interesting things about me than the fact I'm gay" was beginningĀ to take hold and I didn't feel the need to continually announce it to the world and was entering a period of when I was over the whole gay thing. I was slowly turning into what I dreaded: "a jaded, tired old queen living up on the hill." (Although living up on the hill wouldn't happen for several more years.)
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