My Year In Pictures (With Commentary When Necessary)

My obsessions—and the souls I hold near and dear to me—this year are abundantly clear.

WARNING: LOTS of Minidisc-related pictures ahead.

Our traditional New Years Day dog park run.

“What’s the one MD recorder you’d grab in a fire?”
Wanted for years. Finally said fuck it and paid what was necessary.
I can think of no picture that better summed up the mood of the department whenever she spoke.
Red, Blue, and White
After I got home from leaving work for the very last time. This was basically all I wanted to do.

I am incorrigible.
They’re multiplying!
Organ Pipe National Monument.
Two of the loves of my life.
Driving around Organ Pipe National Monument.
Organ Pipe National Monument. We saw previous few organ pipe cacti, truth be told.
Organ Pipe National Monument.

The Wall. His FUCKING Wall.

Morning routine once upon a time.
The Gay Agenda, illustrated edition.
Also from The Gay Agenda, illustrated edition.
Window Coffee, my favorite coffee joint.
My lunch obsession last spring. It just occurred to me that I can throw all this in the Ninja and liquify it…
Poppies. Poppies will put you to sleep.

Bath time!

A typical run to Trader Joe’s earlier in the year.
My favorite baristas/owners of Window Coffee. Nice guys all around.
Sony knew how to do color back in the day.

On the way to coffee and pup cups!

I am nothing, if not organized. (Some say anal retentive.)

Sophie arrives in our lives.

I swear they’re multiplying.
Guts. I’m amazed this shit worked at all.
“Draw me like one of your French girls.”

Gotta do something with the non-functional ones!
This is exactly where Sammy would spend his time while we were eating dinner.
Once upon a time comfort food that after I made it did not live up to the memory.

“What’cha eatin’?”
My One and Only.

Kind of a grail among the MD community.
IKEA color.
Voenix Rising Corporate Headquarters

Obligatory coffee shop restroom selfie.

I am incorrigible.
Yup, incorrigible.
Rule #1
Just me being incorrigible again.

A week or so before surgery. Little did I know this would be our last trip to The Old Spaghetti Factory for who knows how long…

Covered in doggies.
Post surgery, before everything stopped working in my swallower…

Another recording I’d wanted for years and finally gave up and paid what was required.
New vintage tuner.
Pup cups for everyone! Yay!
I’ve really gotten into Japanese Jazz, and particular the Three Blind Mice label.

Raffi: “Ball is Life. Life is Ball.”
Happy Thanksgiving from our family to yours!

“You didn’t want to sleep here, did you?”

I saw it. I had to get it.
“Grailz”
Desert Botanical Garden

Luminarias at the Desert Botanical Garden

Finally found a use for it.
My new morning routine. And pretty much every other meal – flavors may vary. (Not that it really matters.)
We need a much more robust table in back of the sofa. It’s become her favorite place.
One of my favorite “accidental” discoveries of the past few years.
Latest toy. But you knew that.
Kisses!
4 down, 14 to go. Last one supposedly in October. Happy 2026!

29 Years Ago

This photo reminded me of a little road trip I took one Labor Day weekend…

Tuesday, 3 September 1996

Labor Day weekend draws to a close. I managed to extend mine by one day because I agreed to work on Saturday and Sunday a week ago. I was originally supposed to get both last Thursday and Friday off in exchange for my effort, but since I only actually worked about 8 hours over the whole weekend I didn’t feel right taking two days and it was obvious by Wednesday that the job I was involved with wasn’t going to get finished if I didn’t work at least part of the day on Friday, I opted instead for splitting the minute my work was finished on Friday (around 3 p.m.) and taking all of today off.

I did get out of town however, and it was a lot of fun. I’ve been wanting to see Mono Lake for the longest time, so I decided to pack an overnight bag and head over the mountains to see it. The trip entailed driving through Yosemite, a place I’d never really had any desire to visit. That immediately changed once I was in the park. Next time, Yosemite is going to be the end, instead of a means to an end. I can’t say how many times I rounded a corner and gasped, “Oh ma god!” It was absolutely incredible! I shot almost three rolls of film, and I didn’t even go down into Yosemite Valley. This will definitely require further investigation at a later date.

I was kind of disappointed with Mono Lake. I’m not sure what I was expecting, but it definitely wasn’t what I encountered. I’d believed that most of the thing had already dried up, leaving miles and miles of “tufa” towers to explore. Not so. And I should have brought my swim trunks, because swimming was definitely allowed. Another “next time”, I suppose.

My original plans were to stay overnight in Lee Vining, the small town just to the west of the Lake. Well, when I got there, I didn’t exactly like the look of the place, and the Best Western looked way more expensive than what I wanted to spend, so I kind of left everything up in the air while I went out to explore the “tufa” at the southern part of the lake.

Several hours later, I decided I better start thinking about what I wanted to do about overnight accommodations. I looked in my Motel 6 guide, and discovered there was a place about 25 miles south in Mammoth Lakes. I drove down there only to discover that it was full. I returned to Lee Vining (it was around 6:30 at this point) and discovered that not only the Best Western, but all the motels in town were full. I called Michael and told him not to panic if he heard the garage door go up at 2 a.m.; I was heading home. The drive back was horrendous. Because of the fires in Yosemite, the first part of the trip was like driving through red fog. By the time I got past that area and onto highway 108 or whatever, it was nearly dark, and I was now faced with driving the next sixty or so miles on a road which consisted of continuous hairpins and switchbacks, limiting my top speed to around 25 miles per hour. Add to that, this was a road I was totally unfamiliar with.

If there is any place in California, however, where an alien abduction is possible, it’s on that road. I passed maybe five or six cars during the entire journey, and half expected to round a corner and see a UFO in the sitting in the middle of the road. Alas, no missing time, no UFOs. Not even so much as an anomalous light in the sky. Bummer, dude.

I did stop and pulled off at one point because the stars were screaming out at me. I got out, listened to the various sounds of the nighttime forest (hoping a bear wasn’t eyeing me as a midnight snack) and set up my camera and tripod. I snapped several time exposures of the sky.* I hope at least some of them will turn out, because it’s very hard to put into words the wonder of that experience. The Milky Way was out in force and the sky wasn’t even completely dark yet. Jupiter in the south in Sagittarius was like a beacon, and through binoculars, it’s moons were clearly visible.

After I finally got out of the mountains and back into “civilization” I stopped at McDonalds and grabbed a bite to eat around 11. I’d been driving almost non-stop for 14 hours at that point and I was beginning to feel very, very tired. I knew I had to do something if I expected to make it home and not kill myself and someone else on the road. It was just the break I needed, and I continued on my way much refreshed.


*I don’t know what had happened, but the roll of film these pictures were on was nowhere to be found . I know I rewound the film and removed the canister from the camera after I’d taken the photos and—so I thought—dropped it in my bag in the trunk. (It as so dark I didn’t actually see it go in, but I emptied the bag completely and  tore the trunk apart when I got home and it was nowhere to be found.) All I can figure out is that I must’ve dropped it on the road, but I think I would’ve heard it hit the pavement if that had been the case.

Or maybe aliens abducted the film, but not me…

In any case, it remains one of the great mysteries of my life, and that’s why photos like the one above resonate so deeply with me because that’s exactly what the sky looked like on that dark, lonely mountain road.

Road Trip

We needed to get out of the house, out of the city, out of our heads for a bit, so this morning we headed south to Organ Pipe National Monument—because who knows how long any of our National Parks will be around at this point.

Lots of sahuaro and cholla cactus; not so much organ pipe.

And then we came upon this…

You’ve read about it. You’ve seen it on videos. But nothing prepares you for the horrific, ugly in-person reality of the orange felon’s border fence separating the United States and Mexico:

I don’t understand the gates. Why are there (admittedly welded shut) gates? What is their purpose?

I wonder how MAGA would react if Canada erected a similar fence on their southern border to keep us out…

And my final thought was are these fences being built to keep them out or to ultimately keep us in?

 

40 Years Ago

I had just split up with my first partner. I moved into a brand new apartment complex in Mesa, AZ called Crestwood. Very brutal architecture for 1984, no?

Madonna hadn’t even released Like a Virgin yet.

I ended up getting the exact unit I wanted, top floor end unit. Not surprising considering most of the apartments in this part of the complex were still empty. As I recall my rent was $300/month for a one-bedroom. Imagine that.

Lots of interesting adventures while I lived there. That’s all I’m gonna share right now.

 

I suppose it does look like a 25-year-old’s apartment…

The only things I still have in this picture are the two paintings, the poster (rolled up in a tube somewhere I think), and the antique lamp. The lamp is no longer in use because it needs to be rewired. Another project for retirement, I guess!

Today Was Raffi’s Birthday

And it also happened to be Dog Day at the Desert Botanical Gardens. As promised, some photos taken with my old DSLR that I got out of storage a few days ago…

Afterward we went to our usual dog park so he could play with some other dogs since they were all on their best behavior at the DBG.

As Threatened…

I pulled my old workhorse out of storage yesterday. It hasn’t been used since…2016? The battery is on death’s door (it took overnight to charge), but it’s still alive and I have a new one on order. One of the things I wanted to do once retirement hit was to get back into my old hobby. Yeah, the iPhone camera is fine, but sometimes you just need to go “old” school.

2024 In Pictures: My Loves, My Observations, My Obsessions…And A Few Selfies

About a week before the New Year I was going to post a “Year in Pictures” thingie, but after I selected the images I realized that so many of them were of Sammy and I just…couldn’t. His passing was still too fresh. I mentioned this to Ben and he said I should create the post for precisely that reason because Sammy was such a big part our lives.

Well, it’s been a couple weeks since I gathered the photos together and after thinking it over, I think it’s time.























































“Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.” ~ Richard Bach, from The Messiah’s Handbook

Of All My Nuggets…

…this one is undoubtedly one of my favorites. Sony was definitely at the top of their design game in the 90s and 00s, not only with Minidisc, but also with portable CD players.

For me, with the N707, it’s the color, the design, the tactile feel of the unit. And the sound? Absolute chef’s kiss. I can listen to this thing all day and never get burnt out. And of course, it works flawlessly. (Portable MD recorders/players, by their very nature, are much more complicated beasts than portable CD players and more prone to developing problems over years—especially if they’ve been neglected.)

PSA: If you’re not going to use your portable electronics for an extended period and they have removable batteries, remove them.

This One Brings Back a Lot of Memories…

…wandering through new age/crystal shops after taking the ferry from San Francisco across the bay to Sausalito during a balmy late autumn afternoon. It was one of those things you did with new boyfriends or out-of-towners after the obligatory walk across the Golden Gate Bridge. In fact, I believe it was in one of those new age shops that I bought my original copy of this recording. Never fails to put a smile on my face. Simpler times, fer sure!

Some memories of that trip to Sausalito…

I was never that young!
Wildlife
Looking back toward the City
Carl, Kevin (speaking of new boyfriends), and your host
I’ve always been incorrigible

Released 41 Years Ago Today

Madonna: Madonna (1983)

When this album came out I was still living in Tucson. Reuniting after a six-month separation my first partner, Dennis, had moved back from Austin a month earlier. We wasted no time in planning out our renewed life together, deciding to move to Phoenix so he could attend ASU. On a recent up there for a job interview, I met Steve (no not that Steve), a man whose townhouse (and bed) we’d both eventually end up sharing. Advice to my younger self: don’t do it. Anyhow…

Some visuals to go with the musical soundtrack…

I drove past this house for years on my way to work. I learned that it was originally built by the Ronstadt family (as in Linda). It sat unoccupied, in ever-increasing decay for years until that spring, when repairs began. Being a big fan of Frank Lloyd Wright, I always loved the design. It wasn’t one of Frank Lloyd Wright’s works, but it definitely reflected his influence.

Just the summer monsoons. I miss that about Tucson. Phoenix doesn’t get anywhere near as much rain in the summer.

So yeah, I’ll just throw this out there. I’m tempted to say I didn’t know what I had when I had it, but that would be a lie. I knew exactly what I had and I used it to my advantage whenever I could. Those blue nylon shorts (with the liner strategically cut out) got me into trouble more times than I care to divulge.

Funny thing is that now, some four decades later, I cannot imagine actually sitting out in the sun for hours on end for no reason other than to get a tan damage your skinEspecially in Arizona!

This was a little photoshoot Dennis and I decided to do downtown a few weeks after his return. It was in a mixed use shopping/office complex called La Placita Village. After years of neglect and disuse, the place was torn down in 2018.

Pictures from the barrio, taken the same day as our photoshoot.

Who Is That Old Guy…

…and how did he get into our house?!

(Yes, that’s a picture of me in the background overlooking Land’s End in San Francisco ca. 1988.)