Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































Well, I for one am curious. What is your ‘Bobo Lamp’? 🙂
Bobo was a pup we had, who—in his elder years—developed the habit of waking up at 3 am and demanding to be fed. The bobo lamp was a decorative lamp we had in the living room that facilitated getting down the stairs without turning on all the lights in order to feed the old guy. Kind of as a memorial, we never changed the name. As to the other names…we have an IKEA pharmacy lamp, and the other one is “ugly-ass gift,” a name Ben gave to a lamp (that I love) that was given to us by his dad/dad’s girlfriend.