Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































Wonderful post! Happy Holiday to you and Ben.
I lived in Apartments my entire life: San Francisco, Seattle, and Brooklyn; never able to own a pet. At retirement, and a move to rural Montana, I was able to, for the first time in my life, get a Dog! We were together about 8 years. Then, ‘J.J.’ died. All of the descriptive photo memes about having a dog of your own are incredibly, vividly, accurate. And that last lesson: ‘love was worth the pain’ (after your dog suddenly leaves you)…Still trying to be strong enough to go through it all over again. Perhaps someday.