Nostalgia

I've reached that point in our absence from Denver that when looking through photos of our time there I find myself feeling a bit wistful and catch myself thinking, "Was it really so bad?"

Human memory is a funny thing. We tend to remember only the good times and tend to gloss over or outright forget the bad ones. It took me years to get over San Francisco—and that departure was forced by circumstances, not something I particularly chose. Even now, officially absent from Baghdad-by-the-Bay for longer than the sum total of the time I lived there, I still occasionally feel a pang—albeit brief—of homesickness when running across a particularly beautiful photo of The City. (Curiously, my own photos from my time there do not elicit such feelings.)

So I'm sure the same thing will happen with Denver as time goes by. "Was it really so bad?" YES, Mark. Yes it was. Remember the night you got stuck in the snow on the way home from work? How about the continual, hellacious traffic and the horrific drivers? Remember all those times waiting at a bus stop (because you finally wised up and refused to drive to work when it snowed) in -8°F weather? For chrissake if nothing else remember the abysmal employment that both you and Ben had to deal with!

As I've mentioned before, we wanted an adventure, and Denver certainly provided that. And Sammy. Mustn't forget that Denver is where Sammy came into our lives! Sometimes I think that was the sole reason the Universe put us there in the first place.

3 Replies to “Nostalgia”

  1. I have a son that just returned from Denver, having lived there for the last 14 years. He hasn't been back long enough to be nostalgic. We'll see how it goes. Right now he's happy with everything here but the wages…making half of what he did there.

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