Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































The very first time I’d ever seen a Trimline Touch-Tone Phone, was in the film ‘Midnight Cowboy’ (Brenda Vaccaro uses one to call her girlfriend.) I really desired this phone. I got 2 around 1982 in San Francisco – one white, one black. The black one was lost in moves, but I still own the white one. Several years ago I found some site (ebay?) that sold Trimlines, so I purchased a black one. NOT the same. The sound would go ‘in and out’ frequently and it felt like a childrens toy phone, very light. The difference was my original Bell Telephone had (probably) a heavy lead base beneath it, there was ‘heft’ in it. Since I use a landline, it works. Spectrum (my service provider) says I’m one of the few people in Montana with a landline. They joked of course, but still…