Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































The whole list is my ?
This takes me back for sure…I was working at N. Children’s Hospital psych unit with 12-14 kids with behavioral psych problems; these were the songs that the kids would listen to, [that we all would listen to]. I was a “psychiatric aide” – a job that required professional skills but paid non-professional wages. I wasn’t “out” back then, and was going through my own hell. It helped to write about it many years later.