Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































It happened to me! In the early 2000’s when I married my now ex-husband, we went to Las Vegas for a week of room service, swimming pools and fun. We checked into Mandalay Bay and our check-in clerk was wearing a rainbow pin. We all had a gay bonding moment and this wonderful guy, instead of a standard room, surprised us with a 1500 sqft. High Rollers suite with grand bedroom, view of the strip, full kitchen and butler! THANK YOU anonymous clerk!