Some of you may have noticed I didn't write a word about the twelfth anniversary of 9/11. That's because my thoughts on the matter are—for lack of a better term—politically incorrect. While I'm not worried about losing readers, I just wasn't sure I wanted to put anything out there and figured that the old axiom, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" was probably the best course of action.
But then I ran across the following from Talking Points Memo, and it summed up my feelings exactly.
You mention that some people seem to feel that the right "owns" 9/11, and that may contribute to their bristling at the annual commemorations. I think that's close, but not quite it, at least not from my perspective. My memory is of a tremendous feeling of unity after 9/11—I was living in MA at the time, and I had (and have) lots of family in NYC. In the wake of 9/11, and for the first and only time in my life I bought an American flag for my car, and I flew it in a spirit of defiance of terrorism and pride in my country. And I felt a bond with everyone else who had a flag on their car—there was a communal feeling that we all seemed to share.
That all changed as the response from Bush and Co. began to take shape. Instead of beginning a national conversation, they urged everyone to go shopping. And they began pushing for war. Worse, the "with us or against us" dynamic emerged, splitting the sense of unity I think most of us felt. I remember quite clearly that the flags on the cars in my community began to feel less like a recognition of a traumatic experience we had all shared and more like jingoistic support for Bush's militarism. I removed my flag, as did many others, and the flags that remained were inevitably displayed by people who also were strong supporters of Bush.And to this day, I remain conflicted about how to feel about 9/11. After the attacks there was a moment when we might have been able to move forward in some productive directions, to tackle some really difficult issues, with a unified sense of purpose. This moment was replaced with political division and hostility toward dissent. So it's not that I feel that the right owns 9/11. I feel that the right corrupted a precious opportunity for real progress. And we're still paying the price, not only for the lost opportunity, but also for the effects of the dreadful actions that 9/11 gave rise to.
It's hard to commemorate 9/11 without being overwhelmed by disappointment and frustration about the awful stuff that followed.
Amen!
Add to that, the fact that it's now officially called "Patriot Day" bothers me to no end. Because if you don't support or "celebrate" it, it automatically makes you unpatriotic.