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CAUTIOUSLY Optimistic

Quote of the Day
Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.” ~ Robert Downey Jr.
365 Days of UNF: Day 269

Quote of the Day
Our hearts resemble houses constructed by our parents. When we’re young and something breaks they repair the damage. As we get older we learn how to maintain and protect our own houses. First we have to learn how to welcome guests. We may deliberately allow them to enter our intimate lives. Some stay a short time and others stay longer. Some may damage our home or even steal from us. Still, in the end we each need someone to love our home and to become a part of it.” ~ Bammer
Savage

365 Days of UNF: Day 268

5 Misconceptions about DUNE
Ice and Fire: 5 Misconceptions about the DUNE Saga
365 Days of UNF: Day 267

Wasted Talent
Happy Legal Paperwork Day!
I meant to post this last Saturday, but I got distracted and it was left languishing in “drafts.” So here it is now.


Six years ago Ben and I did our part to destroy western civilization, but somehow, despite our best efforts, it still survives. I don’t know what I did to deserve the happiness he’s given me since our paths first crossed, but here’s to another sixty (or some, more realistic multiple of six) years of the same.
Donald Trump Phones Ukraine’s President
Trump: “Nice country you have there. Beautiful people. Women.”
…
Trump: “I’d hate to see something bad happen to such a … such the best place. All the bad things. Very bad.”
….
Trump: “I’d hate for my not-best friend Vlad to get the upper hand in your war with Russia. I’d love to release all that military and economic aid we promised. But, you know, corruption. Sleepy Joe Biden.”
….
Trump: “Thank you, Ukraine man. So good. So loyal.”
The end.
Donald Trump vs. The United States
Sometimes it’s worth stepping back to look at the full picture.
He has pressured a foreign leader to interfere in the 2020 American presidential election.
He urged a foreign country to intervene in the 2016 presidential election.
He divulged classified information to foreign officials.
He publicly undermined American intelligence agents while standing next to a hostile foreign autocrat.
He hired a national security adviser who he knew had secretly worked as a foreign lobbyist.
He encourages foreign leaders to enrich him and his family by staying at his hotels.
He genuflects to murderous dictators.
He has alienated America’s closest allies.
He lied to the American people about his company’s business dealings in Russia.
He tells new lies virtually every week — about the economy, voter fraud, even the weather.
He spends hours on end watching television and days on end staying at resorts.
He often declines to read briefing books or perform other basic functions of a president’s job.
He has aides, as well as members of his own party in Congress, who mock him behind his back as unfit for office.
He has repeatedly denigrated a deceased United States senator who was a war hero.
He insulted a Gold Star family — the survivors of American troops killed in action.
He described a former first lady, not long after she died, as “nasty.”
He described white supremacists as “some very fine people.”
He told four women of color, all citizens and members of Congress, to “go back and help fix the totally broken and crime-infested places from which they came.”
He made a joke about Pocahontas during a ceremony honoring Native American World War II veterans.
He launched his political career by falsely claiming that the first black president was not really American.
He launched his presidential campaign by describing Mexicans as “rapists.”
He has described women, variously, as “a dog,” “a pig” and “horseface,” as well as “bleeding badly from a facelift” and having “blood coming out of her wherever.”
He has been accused of sexual assault or misconduct by multiple women.
He enthusiastically campaigned for a Senate candidate who was accused of molesting multiple teenage girls.
He waved around his arms, while giving a speech, to ridicule a physically disabled person.
He has encouraged his supporters to commit violence against his political opponents.
He has called for his opponents and critics to be investigated and jailed.
He uses a phrase popular with dictators — “the enemy of the people” — to describe journalists.
He attempts to undermine any independent source of information that he does not like, including judges, scientists, journalists, election officials, the F.B.I., the C.I.A., the Congressional Budget Office and the National Weather Service.
He has tried to harass the chairman of the Federal Reserve into lowering interest rates.
He said that a judge could not be objective because of his Mexican heritage.
He obstructed justice by trying to influence an investigation into his presidential campaign.
He violated federal law by directing his lawyer to pay $280,000 in hush money to cover up two apparent extramarital affairs.
He made his fortune partly through wide-scale financial fraud.
He has refused to release his tax returns.
He falsely accused his predecessor of wiretapping him.
He claimed that federal law-enforcement agents and prosecutors regularly fabricated evidence, thereby damaging the credibility of criminal investigations across the country.
He has ordered children to be physically separated from their parents.
He has suggested that America is no different from or better than Vladimir Putin’s Russia.
He has called America a “hellhole.”
He is the president of the United States, and he is a threat to virtually everything that the United States should stand for.
Something to Chew On
Myths, Gods, and the Younger Dryas Cataclysm
Because Everyone Needs a Fruit Room in Their Cape Cod Colonial



Late to the Party. Again.
Purple Disco Machine: Body Funk
Ben sent me a link to this song yesterday, knowing I’d probably love it. I do.
Sounds like a mashup of the Village People, Peter Jacques Band, and a little bit of Macho thrown in for good measure. Italian Eurodisco at its finest!
Monday

365 Days of UNF: Day 266


So We Started Watching Supernatural on Netflix
And having never seen the show before, all I can say is:
SO.
MANY.
DADDY.
ISSUES.
Easier Than Encasing Yourself in Bubble Wrap

Hello sweeties! Everyone has those really rotten days, some more often than others. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, sick, or completely stressed out I want you to know that I’m here for you. These are a few things that I hope can help you feel better. And if these aren’t working for you feel free to *send me a message* and we can just talk. I truly care about you and I want to do my best to get you smiling again!
*Check out the Support Group! Share your problems with others or offer encouragement! All responses will be posted there and you can find even more things to make you feel better!*
Relax and Unwind
- Take a nice hot bath! If you have candles SAFELY use them. It helps, really!
- Relaxing music playlists: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5,
- This is my favorite relaxing classical playlist bc it has AMAZING visuals
- Rain sounds
- Ambient sounds playlist: Everything from waves to light nature sounds
- Get Comfy! I’m talking sweatpants and baggy t-shirt
- Wrap yourself in your fluffiest blanket
- Read your favorite book
- A Quiet Place
- The best yoga poses to release stress
- Calming
- Therapeutic Gif
- Pacific Reef cam from the National Aquarium (They say 8:00am-10:00pm EST are the best viewing times)
- Calming Doctor Who Score playlist (via whensilencefell, thanks!)
Kindness
- Kind Words from my followers
- Endless hugs from the Nicest Place on the Internet
- Rice Questions
- 40 movie inspirational speeches in 2 minutes (the greatest)
- Panic and anxiety information masterpost
- Self harm alternatives
- Compliments
- Gives me hope
- If you ever feel suicidal
- How to love yourself
- Exploring and coping with panic attacks
- Emotional Baggage Check
- Love is louder
- American Psychological Association Info
- HelpGuide
- Suicide Prevention Lifeline
- Reasons to live
Laugh a Little
- Ellen makes everything better
- So does an hour of Scenes from a Hat from Whose Line Is It Anyways
- Playlist of Sideways Scenes from British Whose Line
- Comedies
- Top 10 funniest Friends scenes
- Funniest game show answers of all time
- Sunny Mabrey vine compilation
- AFV
- Kevin Spacey in a cat suit playing Keyboard Cat (from Jimmy Kimmel) I’m sorry, but I burst out laughing when I saw this
- 2 hours of the best moments of Boy Meets World (via bugsy88)
So Much Cuteness
- Play with shelter kitties LIVE (scroll down a bit until you get to the map and click on any orange paw print. If one doesn’t work, try another)
- Watch some cute cat videos
- Cute Roulette (you won’t regret it!)’
- Bunnies making you feel better
- Kitty cam live
- Cute drawings
- Play cute games
- Vancouver Aquarium Live Cams (Beluga, Penguin, Sea Otter and Jellyfish) I find the jellyfish cam to be relaxing if you turn on some music in the background
- Animal Planet’s Live Puppy Cam and Live Kitten Cam (WARNING: adorableness may cause uncontrollable *squee* moments BECAUSE THEY ARE SO CUTE)
Mmm Food
- Fudge Brownie in a mug
- Cookie in a mug
- Nutella hot chocolate
- Study snacks
- S’mores pie
- Mac n cheese in a mug
Health
- As a wonderful person suggested exercising and staying healthy can help you work through those bad feelings. It may be hard at first, but you will feel so much better and you can make it fun:
- Have A PRIVATE DANCE PARTY IN YOUR ROOM! Playlist here.
- Fandom Workouts list of great themed workouts
- Nerd Fitness make working out like a role playing game. Choose a character, pick a quest, and reach your goals!
- Workout like a dwarf from the Hobbit
- Easy Workouts for Anytime
- Workout Masterpage resources, apps, specific workouts & more
- Zoomba anyone?
- Simple, Healthy Snacks
Distractions
- Make something beautiful: textures, Weave Silk, Drawing tutorial masterpost, More textures, Increase creativity
- Play a piano
- Mario
- Cool things
- Cubefield
- Quote yourself
- Games
- List of Disney/Pixar/Marvel movies
- List of other TV shows
- Hacker typer
- “Essay” typer
- Learn a new hobby masterpost
- Candy box, Candy box 2 (you will get addicted)
- Resources masterpost Textures, brushes, fonts, etc
- Akinator
- Build something with Legos (Apparently it only works on Google Chrome, sorry!)
- Play Daft Punk songs using your keyboard
- The mother of all General Tumblr Resources Masterposts
- Explore 100,000 stars!
- The 2048 Game
- Doctor Who version of the 2048 Game
I Am Incorrigible

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Open Air Buffet Table

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365 Days of UNF: Day 265

Yamaha
I’ve owned a lot of stereo equipment over the years. A lot. When I actually sat down and attempted to make a list it was embarrassing. I also missed out on–or consciously passed over—several pieces of gear I’d love to get my hands on today, as ridiculous as that sounds. Whole brands I casually dismissed because I didn’t care for the aesthetics now hold unbridled fascination.
But what would I do with this gear? I already have a full system in use and a receiver that’s sitting In the closet. And yet, I’d like to at least hear some of this stuff (not that my ears are anywhere near as discerning as they were in my teens and 20s).
I only bring this up because occasionally a piece of equipment shows up on Instagram that elicits an, “Awww…” reaction.

In my opinion, Yamaha’s designs were almost always innovative and exemplary. The objects were stunning, the controls silky. The sound was awesome. But you paid the price. Among the big Japanese firms of the day, Yamaha was definitely considered a high-end, luxury brand—and it was priced accordingly. While price wasn’t always an issue (I could justify pretty much anything if I wanted it badly enough), my Yamaha love was sidetracked by the arrival of Sony’s equally high-end V-FET line of amplifiers. While I probably couldn’t hear any difference between a V-FET amp and a regular transistor amp now, back in the late 70s, it was obvious and it the sound was so good it soured me to what were otherwise great pieces of equipment. As I’m sure I’ve written about before, I got my Sony V-FET, and then over the next decade, the amp proceeded to self-destruct on a regular basis, requiring an expensive repair each time to get it up and running again. I tried replacing it more than once during those ten years, first with a set of Technics Micro Series components that fired my imagination, but in comparison were ultimately disappointing sound-wise, and again with a different Sony amp whose sound was less engaging but at least reliable.
The time came to replace that amp after helping a friend buy a new Yamaha system. I decided it was time to revisit my dormant, but unfulfilled Yamaha yearning.
Unlike many of the Japanese audio manufacturers who had abandoned the “big iron” philosophy of the late 70s and started building what I not-so-affectionately refer to as “black plastic crap,” Yamaha remained true to its roots, continuing to build high-end, metal-encased gear of heft. Yes, it was still expensive, but at least you felt like you were getting your money’s worth.
I settled on a 100 watt per channel Yamaha A-700 integrated amp and the matching T-700 tuner. At the time I also decided it was also time to retire the aging Infinity loudspeakers I’d had since high school and replaced them with a pair of Phase Tech PC60s. The sound was…incredible. It easily rivaled the V-FETs and in many ways surpassed them. Coupled with the separate subwoofer I added a year later, the combination was capable of shaking the house to the foundation.
Sadly, I sold the amp and tuner a decade later, after having discovered the wonders of eBay, allowing me to pick up some of the gear I’d lusted over twenty years earlier for cheap. I replaced them with a Technics SA-800 receiver, a model only one step down from the all time monster SA-1000, the reigning title-holder of the receiver wars of the late 70s.
While I loved the look of the receiver, after only a couple months I was dissatisfied with the sound the Technics produced. When a set of the 700 series Yammies came up for auction on eBay I lept on it. After winning the auction, I drove down to Los Angeles to pick them up.
Getting them back to my apartment, I was honestly surprised how much better they sounded than the Technics. The bass was tight; the treble and mid-tones were distinct and well defined. I swore I’d hold onto these components forever.
Of course the Universe had other plans in mind and they were sold out of necessity in 2003.
365 Days of UNF: Day 264

