Based on some recent incidents, let me reiterate: If you are the owner of a photo that appears on this site and wish it removed, you don’t need to get all legal and send threatening letters and takedown notices; just email me with the photo’s URL or leave a comment on the offending post and I will gladly remove it.
In other words…

Mark Alexander
You’re a bad man. You’re a very bad man!

Irreverent, independent, and often snarky partnered married gay boomer and doggie dad who is tired of moral pontification by hypocritical conservative assholes and hate filled religious bigots.
This blog is NSFW and intended for adults only.


It may contain unapologetically liberal diatribes and photos of naked men, either alone or together, doing things that may cause inexplicable erections among certain sanctimonious anti-gay Republican congressmen. In addition to my personal photography, images displayed here have been pulled from the internet.

















































The chance presented itself to me this past Tuesday. While cycling, I passed a home where a (Fellow) Senior was working on the outside of the gate on his picket fence. I got about 20 yards and then circled back to him. I asked if he could use any assistance, he didn’t say ‘yes’, nor did he say ‘no’, exactly, so I parked my bike and he explained what he was attempting to do: Repair the Gate so that it would close flush with the post (it wouldn’t let the metal latch catch because the gate itself had shifted perhaps an inch off the post. I lifted the gate and held it in position so he could remove the screws from the hinge and replace them at a new spot. It worked and his Gate closed properly for the lock to work. He was even older than myself I think, but he would probably not have been able to do this by himself alone. It was a simple and easy gesture requiring nothing at all, and the feeling of offering help and the accomplishment of the assistance was….something incredily satisfying.